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This page explains how it works. The tool itself is inside your SeniorThrive account.

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My Final Wishes is where you record how you would like things handled, and where to find what matters, so no one has to guess.

Open Family & Friends and scroll to Planning ahead. That section stays closed until you open it. Inside are two cards: Letters to Loved Ones, and My Final Wishes. Choose My Final Wishes.

How I'd like to be remembered. Burial or cremation, the kind of service you would want or would hate, music, readings, who should be told. Anything you have an opinion about, and permission to say you have no opinion at all, which is itself an answer worth recording.

What matters to me about my care. What you would want if you could not speak for yourself. What matters to you about comfort, about where you are, about what you would and would not accept.

Where to find things. A map to the paperwork, the accounts and the people. Which solicitor, which bank, where the deeds are, who has a key.

The "Where to find things" page carries its own subtitle and it is the rule for this whole product: a map your family can follow. No passwords, ever.

SeniorThrive is a locator. It records where a thing is and who to ask, never the credentials to get into it. Do not put in passwords, PINs, card numbers or security answers.

"The pension paperwork is in the grey folder in the study, and Michael at Harper & Co has handled it since 1998" is exactly right, and it is more useful than a password anyway, because it still works after the password has been changed.

Some things only count if you do them at the source, and writing them here does not make them true.

For your online accounts, the binding arrangements are set at the platforms themselves: the Facebook Legacy Contact, Google's Inactive Account Manager, Apple's Digital Legacy Contact. The page gives you the links. Recording your intention in SeniorThrive is a note to your family. Setting it at the platform is the thing that actually has force.

The same logic applies more widely. This is not a will, it is not a legal directive, and it does not replace whatever your country requires for either. A solicitor does that. What this does is make sure that when somebody goes looking, they find your actual wishes rather than a guess.

Writing down what matters to you about your care is genuinely useful and it is not a clinical instruction. SeniorThrive does not send it to a doctor or a hospital, and no medical professional is bound by it.

If you want your wishes to carry weight in a hospital, that is a conversation with your doctor and the paperwork your health system uses. This page is how your family knows what to say when they are asked.

A read-through once a year keeps it accurate, and it is worth another look after anything changes: a move, a loss, a new diagnosis, a bank that has changed hands.

Your family will follow this map exactly as you have drawn it, so those few minutes are what make it genuinely useful to them.

Nobody, until you choose. It stays private until you decide to share it, and the page has its own control for who can see what.

The counterweight is worth saying: a wish nobody can find has not been recorded, it has been hidden. At some point somebody needs to know this exists and how to reach it. That part is a conversation, not a setting.